Monday 14 December 2015

‘Giving is Living’ Questions


 


Is there a time when one should not give?

How is it to give to yourself?

What do the different faces of ‘giving’ look like?

How would the world be if everyone gave?

How would the world be if no one gave?

What does it take to become a cheerful giver?

Can we give what we don’t have?

What would giving out of fear or obligation look like?

What would giving out of love look like?

What is it to give without judgment or reason?

Can we give so much that it becomes addictive?

Is it in the nature of our souls to give?

Does true service need to be sacrificial?

Is the greatest poverty the inability to give?

Is it more valuable to give to those lacking the means for repaying us?

Why should we give?

What is sacrificial giving?

What are your thoughts about giving out of habit rather than conscious giving?

Is giving more worthy if it’s done in secret?

Do we all have the gift of giving?


Should we stop giving if our motives are wrong?

Giving is Living!



Giving is Living




“Listen, O drop, give yourself up without regret, and in exchange gain the Ocean.”
-Rumi


“To give and to be generous are attributes of Mine; well is it with him that adorneth himself with My virtues.”
– Baha’u’llah

“You often say ; I would give , but only to the deserving,
The trees in your orchard say not so, nor the flocks in your pasture. 
Surely he who is worthy to receive his days and nights is worthy of all else from you.
And he who has deserved to drink from the ocean of life deserves to fill his cup from your little stream.
See first that you yourself deserve to be a giver, and an instrument of giving.
For in truth it is life that gives unto life-while you,
who deem yourself a giver is but a witness.”
– K. Gibran



“It's not how much we give but how much love we put into giving.”
– Mother Teresa



“Man’s merit lieth in service and virtue and not in the pageantry of wealth and riches. Take heed that your words be purged from idle fancies and worldly desires and your deeds be cleansed from craftiness and suspicion”
-Baha’u’llah



“Kindness in words creates confidence. Kindness in thinking creates profoundness. Kindness in giving creates love.”
- Lao Tzu


“We make a living by what we get. We make a life by what we give.”
– W. Churchill



“And the honor and distinction of the individual consist in this, that he among all the world’s multitudes should become a source of social good. Is any larger bounty conceivable than this, that an individual, looking within himself, should find that by the confirming grace of God he has become the cause of peace and well-being, of happiness and advantage to his fellow men.”
-Abdu’l-Baha



“Lord, make me an instrument of thy peace.
Where there is hatred, let me sow love,
Where there is injury, pardon;
Where there is doubt, faith;
Where there is despair, hope;
Where there is darkness, light;
And where there is sadness, joy.

O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek
to be consoled as to console,
to be understood as to understand,
to be loved, as to love.

For it is in giving that we receive,
It is in pardoning that we are pardoned,
and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.”
-Francis of Assisi




“You give but little when you give of your possessions.
It is when you give of yourself that you truly give.”
– K. Gibran




“We must be like the fountain or spring that is continually emptying itself of all that it has and is continually being refilled from an invisible source. To be continually giving out for the good of our fellows undeterred by fear of poverty and reliant on the unfailing bounty of the Source of all wealth and all good—this is the secret of right living.”
-Shoghi Effendi



“Remember that when you leave this earth, you can take with you nothing that have received--only what you have given.”
-Francis of Assisi



“Generosity is the most natural outward expression of an inner attitude of compassion and loving-kindness.”
-Dalai Lama



“As desire abates, generosity is born. When we are connected and present, what else is there to do but give?”
-Jack Kornfield



“Be generous in prosperity, and thankful in adversity. Be worthy of the trust of thy neighbor, and look upon him with a bright and friendly face. Be a treasure to the poor, an admonisher to the rich, an answerer to the cry of the needy, a preserver of the sanctity of thy pledge. Be fair in thy judgment, and guarded in thy speech. Be unjust to no man, and show all meekness to all men. Be as a lamp unto them that walk in darkness, a joy to the sorrowful, a sea for the thirsty, a haven for the distressed, an upholder and defender of the victim of oppression. Let integrity and uprightness distinguish all thine acts.”
-Baha’u’llah



“Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.”
-Matthew 6:25-34”



“Be a home for the stranger, a balm to the suffering, a tower of strength for the fugitive. Be eyes to the blind, and a guiding light unto the feet of the erring. Be an ornament to the countenance of truth, a crown to the brow of fidelity, a pillar of the temple of righteousness, a breath of life to the body of mankind, an ensign of the hosts of justice, a luminary above the horizon of virtue, a dew to the soil of the human heart, an ark on the ocean of knowledge, a sun in the heaven of bounty, a gem on the diadem of wisdom, a shining light in the firmament of thy generation, a fruit upon the tree of humility.”
-Baha’u’llah





“Give a bowl of rice to a man and you will feed him for a day. Teach him how to grow his own rice and you will save his life.”
-Confucius



“I expect to pass through this world but once. Any good, therefore, that I can do or any kindness I can show to any fellow creature, let me do it now. Let me not defer or neglect it for I shall not pass this way again.”
-Quaker saying



“Be anxiously concerned with the needs of the age ye live in, and center your deliberations on its exigencies and requirements.”
-Baha’u’llah


“All you have shall some day be given; Therefore give now, that the season of giving may be yours and not your inheritors'.”
-K. Gibran



“Happiness never decreased by being shared.”
-Buddha



“The purpose of human life is to work for the betterment of the world.”
-Baha’u’llah


“I've learned that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitts on both hands. You need to be able to throw something back.”
-Maya Angelou


“As His divine power has given unto us all things that pertain unto life and godliness, through the knowledge of Him that has called us to glory and virtue: ...giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue; to virtue knowledge; to knowledge temperance; to temperance patience; to patience godliness; to godliness brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness charity.”
-Psalms 41:1



“Now is the time to cheer and refresh the down-cast through the invigorating breeze of love and fellowship, and the living waters of friendliness and charity."
-Baha’u’llah



A generous heart, kind speech, and a life of service and compassion 
are the things which renew humanity.”
-Buddha

He that hath a bountiful eye shall be blessed; 
for he giveth of his bread to the poor.”
-Proverbs 22:9


“Now the end of the commandment is charity out of a pure heart, 
and of a good conscience, and of faith unfeigned.”
-Timothy 1:5

“BEHOLD, God enjoins justice, and the doing of good, and generosity towards [one's] fellow-men.”
-Quran


"Forget thou entirely the ease, tranquility, composure and living of this transitory world and occupy thyself with the well-being and service of the human world and conduct thyself in accord with the advices and exhortations of God."
-Abdu'l-Baha


“Gentleness, self-sacrifice and generosity are the exclusive possessions of no one race or religion.”
-Gandhi


“Every man according as he purposeth in his heart, so let him give; not grudgingly, or of necessity: for God loveth a cheerful giver.”
-The Bible


“Tend the sick, raise the fallen, care for the poor and needy, give shelter to the destitute, protect the oppressed, comfort the sorrowful and love the world of humanity with all your hearts, then I say unto you that ere long this meeting-place will see a wonderful harvest.”
-Abdu’l-Baha


“Before death takes away what you are given, give away what there is to give.”
-Rumi



“It is well to give when asked, but it is better to give unasked, through understanding.”
-K. Gibran



“To whom much has been given, much more will be expected.”
-The Bible



“The ground submits to the sky and suffers whatever comes.  Tell me, is the Earth worse for giving in like that?”
-Rumi


“Therefore strive that your actions day by day may be beautiful prayers. Turn towards God, and seek always to do that which is right and noble. Enrich the poor, raise the fallen, comfort the sorrowful, bring healing to the sick, reassure the fearful, rescue the oppressed, bring hope to the hopeless, shelter the destitute!”
- Abdu'l-Baha


“Silence the angry man with love. Silence the ill-natured man with kindness. Silence the miser with generosity. Silence the liar with truth.”
- Buddha


“I am yours.  Don’t give myself back to me.”
-Rumi


"Be thou loving to every afflicted one, a dispeller of sorrows to every grieved one, a refuge to every fearful one, a heavenly food to every destitute one, a balm to every wounded one, a consolation to dejected hearts, a blessing to unfortunate souls, a treasure to every begging one and a succor to every lamenting one -- so that thou mayest be a banner of guidance and the essence of piety among the maid-servants of thy Supreme Lord."
-Abdu'l-Baha,

Thursday 5 November 2015


Some of Life's 
Big Questions



  1. Where do you go to find inspiration?
  2. What do you value most highly in others?
  3. In what way are the eyes a window on the soul?
  4. What is the difference between wisdom and knowledge?
  5. In what way are we made in God's image?
  6. In what way might the tongue be a lodestone to the heart?
  7. What makes a house a home?
  8. Are we naturally inclined towards evil?
  9. What would life be like without suffering?
  10. How do we attain ultimate happiness?
  11. How can we understand the personal process of another person?
  12. "It is in dying that we are born…" - How does that work?
  13. Is there a purpose to hopelessness and despair?
  14. What are some of the dangers that all religions potentially face?
  15. How do you convey strength of your message without imposing?
  16. How can I know and fulfill my life's mission?
  17. What is the purpose of devotion?
  18. Does God need devotion?
  19. Why do I resist what is good for me?
  20. What is true consciousness expansion?
  21. What is universal knowledge?
  22. What is love?
  23. What does it take to be one with God?
  24. "Leave thyself behind, and then approach Me." - How do we leave the self behind?


Sunday 1 November 2015

Power of Questions












"Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and
 try to love the questions themselves”

- Rainer Maria Rilke
 



“And so I tell you, keep on asking, and you will receive what you ask for. Keep on seeking, and you will find. Keep on knocking, and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks, receives. Everyone who seeks, finds. And to everyone who knocks, the door will be opened.”- The Bible



"Truth or reality must be investigated; for reality is one, and by investigating it all will find love and unity.”
– Abdu’l-Baha


“To find yourself, think for yourself.”
– Socrates



"Not to know is bad; not to wish to know is worse."
-African Proverb


“Reality or truth is one, yet there are many religious beliefs, denominations, creeds and differing opinions in the world today. Why should these differences exist? Because they do not investigate and examine the fundamental unity, which is one and unchangeable. If they seek reality itself, they will agree and be united; for reality is indivisible and not multiple. It is evident, therefore, that there is nothing of greater importance to mankind than the investigation of truth."
- Abdu'l-Baha



"In all affairs, it's a healthy thing now and then to hang a question mark on the things you have long taken for granted."
- Bertrand Russell



"Computers are useless. They can only give you answers."
- Pablo Picasso



“No one truth can contradict another truth. Light is good in whatsoever lamp it is burning! A rose is beautiful in whatsoever garden it may bloom! A star has the same radiance if it shines from the East or from the West.”
– Abdu’l-Baha

 
“People are often unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered, 
Forgive them anyway. If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives,
Be kind anyway.  If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies,
Succeed anyway.  If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you,
Be honest and frank anyway.  What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight, 
Build anyway.  If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous, 
Be happy anyway.  The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow, 
Do good anyway.  Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough, 
Give the world the best you've got anyway.  You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and God, 
It never was between you and them anyway.”Mother Theresa



“We do not see things as they are,
we see them as we are.”
-the Talmud


"Furthermore, know ye that God has created in man the power of reason, whereby man is enabled to investigate reality. God has not intended man to imitate blindly his fathers and ancestors. He has endowed him with mind, or the faculty of reasoning, by the exercise of which he is to investigate and discover the truth, and that which he finds real and true he must accept."

-Abdu'l-Baha


“God always answers in the deeps, never in the shallows of our soul.”
–Anonymous



“I cannot teach anybody anything.  I can only make them think.”
- Socrates



“I am the wisest man alive, for I know one thing, and that is that I know nothing.”
Plato


Valley of Search
The steed of this Valley is patience; without patience the wayfarer on this journey will reach nowhere and attain no goal. Nor should he ever be downhearted; if he strive for a hundred thousand years and yet fail to behold the beauty of the Friend, he should not falter. For those who seek the Ka'bih of "for Us" rejoice in the tidings: "In Our ways will We guide them." "And whoso maketh efforts for Us, in Our ways will We guide them." In their search, they have stoutly girded up the loins of service, and seek at every moment to journey from the plane of heedlessness into the realm of being. No bond shall hold them back, and no counsel shall deter them.


It is incumbent on these servants that they cleanse the heart—which is the wellspring of divine treasures—from every marking, and that they turn away from imitation, which is following the traces of their forefathers and sires, and shut the door of friendliness and enmity upon all the people of the earth.

In this journey the seeker reacheth a stage wherein he seeth all created things wandering distracted in search of the Friend. How many a Jacob will he see, hunting after his Joseph; he will behold many a lover, hasting to seek the Beloved, he will witness a world of desiring ones searching after the One Desired. At every moment he findeth a weighty matter, in every hour he becometh aware of a mystery; for he hath taken his heart away from both worlds, and set out for the Ka'bih of the Beloved. At every step, aid from the Invisible Realm will attend him and the heat of his search will grow.

One must judge of search by the standard of the Majnún of Love. It is related that one day they came upon Majnún sifting the dust, and his tears flowing down. They said, "What doest thou?" He said, "I seek for Laylí." They cried, "Alas for thee! Laylí is of pure spirit, and thou seekest her in the dust!" He said, "I seek her everywhere; haply somewhere I shall find her."

Yea, although to the wise it be shameful to seek the Lord of Lords in the dust, yet this betokeneth intense ardor in searching. "Whoso seeketh out a thing with zeal shall find it."

The true seeker hunteth naught but the object of his quest, and the lover hath no desire save union with his beloved. Nor shall the seeker reach his goal unless he sacrifice all things. That is, whatever he hath seen, and heard, and understood, all must he set at naught, that he may enter the realm of the spirit, which is the City of God. Labor is needed, if we are to seek Him; ardor is needed, if we are to drink of the honey of reunion with Him; and if we taste of this cup, we shall cast away the world.

On this journey the traveler abideth in every land and dwelleth in every region. In every face, he seeketh the beauty of the Friend; in every country he looketh for the Beloved. He joineth every company, and seeketh fellowship with every soul, that haply in some mind he may uncover the secret of the Friend, or in some face he may behold the beauty of the Loved One.

And if, by the help of God, he findeth on this journey a trace of the traceless Friend, and inhaleth the fragrance of the long-lost Joseph from the heavenly messenger, he shall straightway step into the Valley of Love”.
-Baha’u’llah



“The important thing is not to stop questioning.  Curiosity has its own reason for existing.”
-Albert Einstein


"The only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing."-Socrates



"O My brother! When a true seeker determineth to take the step of search in the path leading unto the knowledge of the Ancient of Days, he must, before all else, cleanse his heart, which is the seat of the revelation of the inner mysteries of God, from the obscuring dust of all acquired knowledge, and the allusions of the embodiments of satanic fancy. He must purge his breast, which is the sanctuary of the abiding love of the Beloved, of every defilement, and sanctify his soul from all that pertaineth to water and clay, from all shadowy and ephemeral attachments. He must so cleanse his heart that no remnant of either love or hate may linger therein, lest that love blindly incline him to error, or that hate repel him away from the truth. Even as thou dost witness in this Day how most of the people, because of such love and hate, are bereft of the immortal Face, have strayed far from the Embodiments of the Divine mysteries, and, shepherdless, are roaming through the wilderness of oblivion and error.”
– Baha’I Writings




“Doubt isn't the opposite of faith; it is an element of faith.”
-Paul Tillich

“A wise man's questions contain half the answer. “
–Gabiriol



"Be careful of your thoughts, for your thoughts become your actions.
Be careful of your actions, for your actions become your habits.
Be careful of your habits, for your habits become your character.
Be careful of your character, for your character becomes your destiny."– author unknown



“A single fact can spoil a good argument.”
—Unknown



“The point of having an open mind, like having an open mouth, is to close it on something solid.”
--G.K. Chesterton


"It is unwise to be too sure of one's own wisdom. It is healthy to be reminded that the strongest might weaken and the wisest might err.”
-Mahatma Gandhi


"The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, but wiser people so full of doubts.”
-Bertran Russell


Self-KnowledgeYour hearts know in silence the secrets of the days and the nights.
But your ears thirst for the sound of your heart's knowledge.
You would know in words that which you have always known in thought.
You would touch with your fingers the naked body of your dreams.


And it is well you should.
The hidden well-spring of your soul must needs rise and run murmuring to the sea;
And the treasure of your infinite depths would be revealed to your eyes.
But let there be no scales to weigh your unknown treasure;
And seek not the depths of your knowledge with staff or sounding line.
For self is a sea boundless and measureless.

Say not, "I have found the truth," but rather, "I have found a truth."
Say not, "I have found the path of the soul." Say rather, "I have met the soul walking upon my path."
For the soul walks upon all paths.
The soul walks not upon a line, neither does it grow like a reed.
The soul unfolds itself like a lotus of countless petals.
-K. Gibran